Ah yes, the usual "both sides" logic. Except that both sides did not commit ethnic cleansing, nor do they both actively follow a policy of settler colonialism, do they? There can be no equivalence so long as one side has the power and is actively using it to abuse the other.

Acts of terrorism are acts of desperation, and when the body count is so overwhelmingly one-sided and one side is living under constant embargo and in open-air prison conditions, there's also no equivalence.

As for "psychological reasons," you mean like the fact that you're Israeli and want to believe you're on the side of right? You talk of "same standards," but you clearly don't employ them at all.