I am following the OP just fine, but you’re clearly having a lot of trouble with what I’m saying. It’s VERY simple! The OP is talking about unwanted sexual advances and assault and how some men can’t understand why a women doesn’t want this from men.

I said that reversing the roles in the hopes of making them understand is useless. Idiots think that a woman making advances on them would be fine, because they say they want that.

I then said that in order for them to understand, you need to tell them “what if a man did it you?” This is meant to humorously convey what an unwanted sexual advance feels like to people who otherwise lack the ability to understand.

There was nothing implied about notions of gender roles, dominance, or anything else you’re talking about - you brought those up. My comment was simple and said in jest. The OP didn’t, she got it right away. But you didn’t and still don’t.