Wow, that's quite the "both sides" argument. And it's entirely slanted and self-serving! You think patriarchy mainly oppresses men? When has the patriarchy told men they couldn't be something? When has it denied men decision-making power over others? When has it told men that they are merely objects for baby-making and their place is in a domestic role, entirely dependent on their spouse and at the mercy of their whims?

You're living in a self-delusional fantasy, pal. You don't like the idea that as a man, and white to boot, the doors are open for you and objectification and discrimination are not something you deal with. Hence this, "it's harder to be a man!" diatribe. The truth is you have no idea, and if you traded places with a woman for five minutes, you wouldn't survive!